Is RA in denial about being an alpha male? If so, why? Evidence before the court...
An alpha male displays confidence in a quiet, but noticeable manner.What about a beta male?
Beta Male Characteristics:
1) Nervousness in the hands
This can include: * playing with items * hiding his hands * twiddling with his fingers
[A recent radio interview pic does show Richard twirling what looks like a pencil or long pen of some sort, but in tv interviews his arms are relaxed on back of the chair]
There are a couple photos that show him with at least one hand concealed but I don't think anyone would characterize the stances as 'beta' male
2) Approval seeking
A beta male is somebody who is constantly seeking approval from other people. He’s the guy who tells jokes to get people to like him. Or he’s the guy who works hard to make people like him. All of his behaviors display a nature to get permission to do ALL things in his life.
[Any man who says he didn't "miss anything" about home while away for 5mos, IMO, could not be characterized as 'seeking approval' - especially not when the man had a personal relationship prior to the journey. Any guy who's the least bit intimidated by a female, would've heard a siren go off in his head when asked "what did you miss about home?" and wisely answer at least...'naturally I missed someone.'] As another example - DH constantly tells jokes and teases people but he'd qualify somehwere around 7 on the alpha scale if 1 was almost beta, and 10 was a caricature like Rambo or Wolverine]
3) Following others
Another beta male characteristic is to look to others for guidance and self respect. In a social setting, he’s the guy who is constantly following the trends as a way to fit in and become cool. In essence, he has no personality of his own. Instead he looks to his friends and television to define who he is as a guy.
4) They’re often passive in bed.
Alpha Male Characteristics
1) An alpha male is a man who is confident and assured of himself.
2) They are generally unpredictable. This trait attracts many women.
[I believe his statement that a passionate wkend for him is DIY, would qualify as unpredictable. After working 12 or more hours a day, a more predictable person would crave unwinding in a pool or taking a brief, relaxing trip with a special someone]
What being unpredictable really means is doing things that she least expects. It can be sending her a nice email or a card on a random day of the week. It can also be taking her out on a romantic date where she least expects to go. He knows how to have fun and keep her guessing what he’ll do next.
[Apparently he kept her guessing if he would ever call from No Africa:)]
3) They are comfortable around all women - open and sociable. A man may have tons of knowledge and techniques on how to attract women, but if he never opens up and talks, it will all be wasted. Alpha men break out from their comfort zone and meet new people.
[One thing that has always struck me as interesting is the fact that early on most of Richard's tv projects were directed and/or produced by women - I'd say he's very comfortable in their company.]
4) Alpha men love themselves as well as others
Besides knowing how to take care of others, especially women, an alpha male knows how to take care of himself. They keep themselves fit and healthy. An alpha knows his body best, and hence exercises regularly and has a balanced diet. They also take care of their looks, regularly updating their appearance. This is to ensure that they feel and look their best when necessary.
[We've all enjoyed the stunning proof of his dedicated fitness regime]
What is your opinion? Does RA seem to fulfill more of the 'beta' or 'alpha' male characteristics? Was his handling of the "Are you more an alpha male?" question an artful way for him to keep all options open as far as offers of future dramatic roles? Did he cleverly make certain doors would not close, and he'd not be type cast as solely an action hero? See poll:)
